Flirts
Will be open the 1st and 3rd SATURDAYS! Beginning Dec 20, 2008
News and Rules. Please read. Important info found here!
News Updates for Flirts Club!
ATTN all there will be NO Flirts Jan 3 party, due to the fact that NEW Years is just a few days before. We are doing this out of respect of our members.
ATTN there will be NO Flirts Jan 17th party, due to the fact of the Flirts hosts Will be flying out for the Cruise. There are many people flying out for the cruise on this day, and the next morning. There are many Flrits members going on this cruise, So NO JAN 17 Party.
Flirts Next Party is Feb 7, 2009.
Announcing the Day Change for Flirts. We are moving our party day to Saturdays! We will do this Dec 20, 2008. We will still have an occasional Friday party. Check schedule page for details for dates, and themes. We are doing this day change do to popular demand! So come on out and party with Flirts Club on the 1st and 3rd SATURDAYS of each month. updated Dec 6, 2008
Basic rules we all follow and abide by!
LIFESTYLE INFORMATION
The #1 Rule of swinging
"No means No" If you can't respect other people's wishes, or you can't voice your own, then swinging is NOT for you! No is not an insult. No may be because of a mood, a rule, or it might mean the other person (couple) is not ready. It may also mean, "No, thank you, but I'm not interested." That is every swingers prerogative. It may or may not be personal. No also mey be not right now. Learn to ask and find out what their no means and respect it. We are all adults, deal with it!
Conversation
Not all parties are going to lead straight to bed. Most people prefer to get to know each other a little. Remember, attraction isn't totally physical (Hey, stop looking down my shirt!) Remember to converse with both partners. Don't get too preoccupied with the opposite sexes' pants! If one partner doesn't feel comfortable with you, you probably won't be going home with either of them! Ask what each others rules are! Once you know the rules for each person/couple you have a better chance in finding a play partner. You may want to learn if they play only as a couple, if they play single, or if the spouse/mate will just watch. Be polite and even ask the wife if you are a female if you can play with her husband. If you are male ask the husband if you can play with his wife. You will be thought of respectful and polite, and that goes a long way.
Communication
Learn to communicate openly. Express what your wants and concerns are to other couples. It will make the experience better for both. Introductions: As silly as it may seem, don't forget to introduce people. Even if you've just met two couples, introduce them. You will seem friendly & polite. & everyone will be less confused! Learn to say no or no thank you. It is better to be honest with yourself and others that you are interested or not interested with them. Know what you want and how to let people know that. Do talk with your spouse, before during and after the parties. Keep the lines of communication open at all times with each other.
Hands
Watch those hands. Don't be "handsy". Don't grab other people, their breasts, their butts, don't pull up their skirts. Before you have had sex it's rude & after you have had sex its still rude! Being "handsy" makes people uncomfortable & even worse, it make people not like you. Just because you see other people doing it, does not give you the ok or the right to do it also. They may have an understanding between them, and not you!
Pushy
Don't be pushy. Let couples proceed at their own rate. If you are interested in someone simply tell them so. Ask them if they would like to get together. But don't ask them every 5 minutes. Don't call them everyday & ask to get together. This may seem an extreme example, but hopefully you get the point. It may not happen right away, but being pushy won't make it happen any faster or better! Do not follow or stalk people or a person around the club or else where for that matter. If we get a complaint and we talk to you and you continue to be a pest you will be asked to leave immediately!
Updated 08-08-08
10 Commandments
1. Never attempt to break up a marriage.
2. Always keep dates unless you give ample notice of changing circumstances.
3. Always keep the first meeting on a "no strings attached" basis, but be prepared to swing if it is mutually agreeable or to give an honest answer if something doesn't click.
4. Never, under any circumstances exert pressure on a partner to swing.
5. Restrict discussions of swinging to known swingers and interested persons seeking information.
6. Protect the anonymity of other swingers by refraining from unauthorized "name dropping."
7. Always maintain the highest standards of personal cleanliness and appearance.
8. Do not engage in any unlawful activity that would discredit swingers as a group.
9. Be friendly and warm with your swing partners, but understand that there is a type of emotional involvement, which is properly reserved for a spouse or "primary significant other."
10. Respect is a must. You should always show the up most respect for other people and treat them how you would want to be treated. People have their own personal attitudes, feelings, rules and even hang ups. Be respectful of each person’s views and feelings.
Single males are by INVITE ONLY. it is not hard to get an invite to Flirts.
Single males Rules and Requirements
Attn: all single males: You Now have to be INVITED to join our parties. You do need to be invited by Flirts or by a membered couple be able to come to Flirts. It is easy to get invited. You can email us at flirts_club@yahoo.com. Send us some info about your self and we will start getting you an invitation for the party. You can also call us at 208-209-5825 after 6pm pacific time on weekdays (Monday thru Friday) and anytime on weekends.
Here are the rules you must follow when you come to Flirts:
If you are new to Flirts, you do need to go through orientation at 7pm sharp.
All single males will be required to be naked. We will provide you a towel to cover up with. The towel will have Velcro on it so it will stay on. When the towels run out, no more single males will be allowed in. Single males can still wear their socks and shoes or slippers, sandals, etc. The Single males can wear a t-shirt, undershirt or tank top along with the towel. You do HAVE to return the Towel at the end of the night. If we lose the Single males towels WE will start to charge you a $10.00 deposit each night. At the end of the night when you return the towel you will get your deposit back! So be honest and return the towel! This will help eliminate the shy male voyeur. Those single males that do come to our parties will have self esteem and confidence that wearing just a towel is no big deal.
We understand these are extreme rules, But these are our rules no exceptions. So do not ask. Why this rule, is because some single males have come on out to flirts and has not followed the rules, and some single males have followed people around, like they are lost puppy dogs. they do not talk those they are following. We also have a few single males that do invaded other peoples space and their own personal bubble; so it only takes a few to ruin it for all.
The single male costs is 60.00 dollars per party. updated 09-17-08
Flirts Rules and code of conduct
that will be signed by each person upon entering the first time to our party.
Rules and code of conduct for ALL members! All Rules are strictly enforced.
This is an on site premises sex club where adult behavior is displayed.
No means no! We provide a no pressure atmosphere and will maintain this. No touching with out permission, just ask first. Do not be “handsy”. You will be asked to leave immediately if you do not follow this rule!
Controlled substances/illegal drugs will not be tolerated at any club function. If you are caught or seen by the Flirts owners or associaties who are in charge using any kind of illegal drugs, you will be asked to leave immediately and asked not to return.
No Cameras allowed! No weapons such as guns, knives, etc on the property.
Protect the Privacy of the club and all members. What happens at the club stays at the club. So if you run into someone you know, do not go spreading rumors. We are all here for the same thing!
Vulgar talk, Fighting, Obnoxious, unruly, argumentative and drunken behavior will not be tolerated. You will be asked to leave! If you and your spouse/mate/etc are having an issue, do take it to where you can be private and discuss the issue. If you can not remedy the situation at the club then please leave early; you do not want to make a scene, and work things out before you return to the club. Any couple or persons who fight, throw things, etc at people will be asked to leave to immediately and asked not to return to Flirts.
No Harassment of members of the club. Be courteous and polite.
You must be 21 years of age; if you look young we will ask for ID.
For your protection and for the protection of others, we recommend that you us protection, condoms, and Birth Control if this applies to you. Know the rules of the people you paly with! Some people have to use condoms for what ever reasons, respect this and do not try to be sneaky and not use them. If they say We use condoms, then use them!
Do not Take- Borrow or use someone else’s Drinks or Alcohol with out asking first. Do not add anything to anyone's drink!
You will not hold the Flirts or the land owners liable for any accidents, loss of stolen property, and loss of limb, injury, or death while using any or all of the equipment, building or the grounds. You here by signing, take complete responsibility for your actions or actions of someone else that may cause injury to ones self.
Any breach of these rules or rules that are made in the future can eliminate you from the club. We reserve the right to remove your membership or ask you to leave the premises. updated 08-08-08
Flirts!
Be sure to check out The White Rose They have parties and events on the 2nd and 4th Sat. of each month. Check out their website for more details.
http://www.theidahowhiterose.com
We do not do drama! We want to have a good time and fun. We all need to find friends we can hang out with and let our hair down a bit. We all can get along and play nice with each other.
So leave the Drama, the jealously, and mean feelings at the door.
If you are a person or couple that shows drama one two different parties and disturb the party we will ask you not to return until you figure things out!
We know issues come up and you may need to talk or handle them, take it to where you have privacy and deal with it; if you can not figure it out please leave the party and deal with it at home in the privacy of your own home.
All people that come to the club are in the lifestyle or are looking it to the lifestyle. We are all swingers and lifestylers. So we all know and respect one another. That goes with out saying swingers, lifestylers are all first class people!
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